Life is full of choices. That's a fact and if you cannot muster the strenght to make your decision, somebody else will definitely make a choice and gladly decide for yourself.
Lately, I've been into a dilemma of choice...perhaps between facts or feelings....between a logical or a psycological option.
Let me elaborate... if a person wakes up in a cold morning say at 4:00AM.....what would he or she ought to do? Continue sleeping or get-up and go to the shower, dress-up, take the bus and go to work in the early morning shift? Of course, the logical choice which is base on facts is to get up and work... while the psychological option (which is base on feelings) is to continue sleeping and dreaming!
It is much easier to make a choice between good and bad...as it is already obvious that we should decide in favor of the former and shun the latter. However, if the options will be between good, better or best...then it will be a tough decision to make...considering that most people will not leave their current comfort zones (which is the good)...in favor of a potential better or best option.
Most people always want to be sure that they can make the "right" choice, and afraid to commit mistakes. However, that's not always the case since you need to make a decision with incomplete facts/information and we do not have a crystal ball to accurately predict the outcome of the future. Still, making a choice is always better than standing still and be paralyzed by indecision. Action is always better than inaction. Being pro-active is always better than to be reactive.
Personally, I guess that making the logical choice will lead to less "complications"and a saner life...yet it makes us creatures without feelings....an automaton or robot. On the other hand, a psychological choice is always complicated and leads to complex and difficult situations...even problematical! Yet, it is the feelings that makes us human...a complete person.
The bottom line is that each one of us must always make a choice one way or the other. And hey, always keep in mind that there is no such thing as a "wrong choice." Nobody in his right mind will willingly desire to make a wrong decision. It so happen that a decision will be made without the complete facts, or without the complete picture...and if the facts and circumstances changes, as they always will...one can always change his course of action.
"ONLY THE DEAD WILL NOT CHANGE ITS MIND," and as long as one is alive...he or she will continually make choices and change his mind (or decision) from time to time.
